記得大概一年前因為一些小風波,心情有點困惑,便和朋友傾訴.她問了我一個問題...
你最近生活好嗎?有沒有什麼煩惱呢?
我想了一會,答,沒什麼煩惱,一切也尚算順利.
朋友說,當你生活在順風順水之中時,未必察看得到別人的煩惱.
人總喜歡報喜不報憂,不細心點觀察,往往容易忽略旁人的心情.
有一個老朋友時常在社交網訴說自己的困惑和苦惱,叫人擔心不已.前幾天,我跟她說不要再做苦瓜乾,要開開心心樂觀面對.老朋友說:放心,我只是訴訴苦而已,說完便沒事了.
的確,肯把心事說出來比悶在心裡的好,而負能量能夠釋放到大氣層,總算令身體各機能也得到一點喘息的機會.
無論你的傾訴對象是家人,朋友,同事,還是網友,多點與人溝通,便不會有機會碰上牛角尖...
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朋友,大家也會懷念你的... May your soul rest in peace...
1 則留言:
like what I said to you before...
negative emotions stored within erode the heart (and thus the soul)
voice out & you release those emotions and set your heart free.
this is what I believe.
but sometimes we always forget how lucky we are to have the habits & ability to speak out our own feelings. it is not easy for others to know you if you do not speak.
may our dear friend rest in peace.
passing our love to her is the best gift we can give now. and I believe she can feel it.
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